A Christmas connection...
We are all connected. We're connected by past, present and future, by nature, spirit and energy, by hopes and dreams, by fate and faith, by love and light...and caring.
And yesterday, I was reminded again that this world we live in may seem unbelievably large--infinite even--and yet, the smallest of actions can set into motion something that spreads across land and sea, from one country to another, from one heart to another.
It all started with a wish list I saw online. No, wait! Let's go back further.
It started with an organization in Newnan, Georgia. The Alliance for Children's Enrichment (ACE) is responsible for helping the less fortunate families and children of the Newnan-Coweta area. Every year, ACE makes a wish list, with names, ages and gift wishes of children who live at poverty level. The hardest category to fill is the teens. Their needs are sometimes more expensive and they are often overlooked as many people want to help the younger children first.
This saddens me. I have a 17 year old daughter. Christmas is just as important to her now as it was when she was a child. And every child deserves to have something beautiful and colorful to unwrap on Christmas morning. That is the excitement, the thrill of Christmas.
So how did I find out about this organization and their kids? That is the amazing part.
I have a Google Alert set up on "Whale Song" and "Cheryl Kaye Tardif", so that any time someone writes about me or my novels and posts it online, I'll get an email with a link. So imagine my surprise when I found an alert, followed it to the Times-Herald newspaper in Georgia and read the article by W. Winston Skinner (I'll post the link below).
At first, I thought it was a mistake, that the alert was incorrect. Until I read further and saw the girls' wish list section. And this one heart-wrenching post...
"Lisa, 12, Bath and Body Works stuff, diary with lock, Cheryl Tardif books--"Whale Song", "A Grave Error" and "Picture Perfect".
I was stunned. I still am. There is something so absolutely bittersweet yet hopeful about a young girl asking for books for Christmas--and even more touching that she asked for mine.
There was no way I was going to just hit 'exit' and go back to work. I had to do something. So I contacted Jan Taylor at ACE. We are both amazed at how I was led to this newspaper article, and to this child.
Today I mailed off a parcel to Jan at ACE. At least one child on that list is going to have their Christmas dreams come true. And I am so very honored to be a part of that. I couldn't give her "A Grave Error" and "Picture Perfect" because they are Amazon Shorts (short stories via computer), but I do have 2 other novels--The River and Divine Intervention--and they found their way into that parcel.
My goal now is to contact as many authors whose names were mentioned and ask that they think of doing the same. And if you are inspired to help a child in need this Christmas time, I invite you to contact Jan Taylor at Alliance for Children's Enrichment (ACE) at 770-254-3339 or cjantaylor@aol.com.
I can't imagine that in Canada and the US there will be children who will go without gifts or a Christmas dinner. I don't want to imagine this. Yet, even in my own city, this will be a fact. I am already doing something for my city--I'm donating a portion of my royalties from Whale Song to help 3 nonprofits combat homelessness, poverty and addictions.
Then I come across ACE and their Christmas wish list. I was "led" to them for some reason. And I'm going to listen. They're fighting the same fight. The fight against poverty can only start with action. I wish I could help all the kids on that list. I really do. I wish I had enough money to buy them all at least one thing they wanted--and they didn't ask for big things. Some of their wishes are so simple; some give you great insight into that teen's life.
On a glassy, reflective surface of water, all may seem still and quiet. Until you get a glimpse at the life beneath the surface. Drop in a stone and watch the ripples move outward, reaching further, encompassing all around it.
I invite you all to be a 'stone' this Christmas. Drop yourself into the water by doing something for someone else, something unexpected, something more. Then watch the ripples grow. I think that is what Christmas should really be about. Reaching out to someone in need. Helping them without questions or judgment.
To read the article at the Times-Herald, please click on Search our Archives and then in the Search box type in 'Cheryl Tardif' (a direct link to this page expires in a day or so, so I can't give you a permanent link).
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We are all connected by a single invisible thread...
the thread of life.
November 29th UPDATE!
~Cheryl



Reader Comments (2)
I live in the Newnan area. For the first time this year, I had to turn to ACE to help me with my childrens Christmas. People like you provide amazing things for our children. I had some medical problems this year, and was out of work for quite a while, and sometimes still wonder how we will make it, but reading your blog, and the story in the newspaper brought more tears to my eyes than I have even cried for my own children. I just want to thank you for being a part of helping the children in our community, and for all that you do. My daughter, after reading the article in the paper, says to me, "Mama, when we go to the library, I think I want one of her books". Thank You so very much. !!!
Dear Barbara:
Thank you so very much for your comment. It is wonderful to hear from one of ACE's families, it truly is.
And sorry it took so long for me to see your comment here. I can't believe I missed it!
Believe me when I say, "I've been there." And I have. I do know that there are times in life where everything seems so tough--paying bills, paying rent, buying clothes for kids, having enough food to last the month...or 2 weeks. And it's so darned hard to admit when you need help or to ask for it. I know that feeling. As a parent, it's awful.
But what I can say is that those situations aren't always forever. Most times they are temporary and there is a way out...sometimes I know there isn't. I think we have to do what we gotta do. And when possible, pay it back.
I'm not a wealthy author by any means. I could never live off my own income. But I am blessed with an open heart and a head crammed full of ideas. :) And once I get something in my mind, there is not much that will shake it. I have to "just do it!", as the Nike logo says.
So you are very welcome. It is a blessing to know through your comment that my small actions affected someone else. I wish I could do something bigger! One day...
I am very honored to have done my part. I was 'called'. I felt compelled to answer and I'm very glad I did. This whole experience made my Christmas!
I hope I will hear from more people in Newnan. I am also hoping to visit your town some day. Winston from The Times-Herald sent me 2 copies of the front cover with my article in it. :)
Please let your daughter know that Whale Song would be the perfect book for her to read. It is my heart book! :)
Please stay in touch.
All the best to you in 2008!
Cheryl